But if you step back and look at how life is evolving today, one thing becomes increasingly clear, our world is no longer limited to one geography.

The products we consume are global. The technology we use every day is global. And increasingly, even our long-term aspirations, whether it is children’s education, future lifestyle choices, travel, or business opportunities, are becoming global as well.

Which raises an important question: Should investments remain entirely local when life itself is becoming more global?

The missing layer in many portfolios

Think about the businesses that are quietly becoming part of your daily life.

Whether it’s the smartphone you use, the platforms you rely on, or the technology powering businesses worldwide, companies like Apple, Microsoft, Amazon, NVIDIA and Alphabet etc., they are shaping the direction of the global economy.

Yet, most Indian portfolios, even well-diversified ones, have little to no exposure to such businesses.

In other words, many portfolios today are diversified across funds but not across geographies.

India and global markets play different roles

India remains a powerful and essential part of long-term wealth creation. It offers domestic growth, rising financialisation, increasing consumption, and structural economic expansion.

Global markets, on the other hand, provide exposure to businesses that already operate at massive scale across industries and geographies.

Because many of the world’s largest and most influential companies are listed in the United States, a significant part of international investing naturally leads investors toward the U.S. market. In fact, many businesses that influence everyday life globally across technology, communication, healthcare, finance, and digital infrastructure are listed in the U.S. markets

When investors think about U.S. market exposure, two widely followed indices often come up, the NASDAQ 100 and the S&P 500.

The NASDAQ 100 includes some of the world’s largest non-financial companies, many of which are leaders in technology, innovation, AI, cloud computing, and digital platforms. As a result, the index tends to be more concentrated and innovation-driven. 

The S&P 500, meanwhile, provides broader exposure to the U.S. economy across sectors such as healthcare, financials, industrials, consumer businesses, and energy.

Together, they provide exposure to different dimensions of the global economy, one representing where much of the future is being built, and the other reflecting the breadth and resilience of large global businesses today.

Why is this becoming more relevant today?

There was a time when global investing felt optional for many Indian investors. Today, it is gradually becoming more relevant. Businesses now operate across borders, scale faster, and earn revenues from multiple geographies. 

Recent market cycles have also shown that different regions do not move in the same way at the same time. While one market may go through periods of slowdown or volatility, another may continue to perform well. Global exposure can therefore add another layer of diversification beyond sectors and asset classes.

There is also a practical aspect that investors are beginning to recognise.

Many long-term goals today, especially overseas education or future global lifestyle expenses, are effectively linked to the U.S. dollar. If future expenses are USD-linked while investments remain entirely INR-linked, a natural mismatch gets created.

Over time, currency depreciation can increase the actual cost of those goals, even if the goal itself has not changed. This is one of the reasons global exposure is increasingly becoming part of long-term portfolio conversations.

How can you access the Global Market today?

Global investing no longer necessarily requires opening overseas brokerage accounts or managing operational complexity directly.

Over the last few years, GIFT City has emerged as an important international financial hub, allowing Indian and NRI investors to access global investment opportunities through regulated IFSC structures.

Through products such as the Parag Parikh IFSC Fund of Funds, investors can get exposure to global indices like the NASDAQ 100 and S&P 500 through a relatively simpler and more structured route.

• Exposure to USD-denominated assets
• Minimum Investment: USD 5,000
• Additional: USD 500 onwards
• Route: GIFT City (IFSC)
• Liquidity: No lock-in 
• Taxation:
  • Investments held for more than 24 months are taxed as long-term capital gains (LTCG).
  • Investments held for less than 24 months are taxed as short-term capital gains (STCG) as per applicable slab rates. 

Who can invest?

• Those seeking a low-cost passive strategy exposure to global tech themes
• Investors seeking high-concentrate exposure to US-based tech companies.
• Investors who want to avoid the 26–40% US estate tax burden associated with direct US investments.
• Investors looking for exposure to US stocks without the hassle of foreign tax filing.

So, is this the right time?

It is natural to wonder whether this is the “right time” to invest globally. But with global exposure, the bigger question is not timing, it is participation. Because the cost of waiting is often invisible. You don’t see it immediately, but over time it reflects as missed diversification, missed compounding, and continued concentration. A more practical approach is to begin gradually and build exposure over time, rather than wait for the perfect entry point.

In Closing

India continues to remain a strong and indispensable part of long-term portfolios. That foundation does not change. But as life, opportunities, and future goals become increasingly global, portfolios may also need to evolve alongside them. The idea is not to choose between India and the world. It is to recognise that both can play meaningful roles in long-term wealth creation.

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We can’t stop change, but we can often do a better job of anticipating and preparing for change. How we respond to change will have a profound effect on the decisions we make, the opportunities we seek, and the quality of life we experience. So can our willingness to initiate change improve our lives and the lives of others.

Therefore, overcoming challenges and taking advantage of opportunities are key elements of making successful transitions throughout life’s journey. We have been part of many transitions throughout –here are three real-life transitions that beautifully reflect how change, when supported with the right decisions, can lead to meaningful outcomes.

• Home in Poland – Offshore job opportunity made Gautami & Ganesh move to Poland. The home they were staying in on rent was available to buy – they consulted us and it was a prudent decision to buy as they could own a home instead of paying high rent. The rental yields are very high in European countries. In between, they were blessed with a baby girl. In Poland citizenship doesn’t come along with your birth -so Ganesh willingly changed Citizenship for his daughter’s better future.  Later, they moved in now to a big house, and an old house is coming handy to save on more loan – Life moved to a different pedestal with careful planning at each step. 
• Career break to Nirvana – Corporate Restructuring – role becoming redundant has become common these days. One of our clients, Ragini, found her ‘why’ during one such break. Her yearning for spirituality, knowing, found new meaning as she got the time and space, which led her to explore tarot card reading, meditation, and learning to see the future by drawing on the past. It may sound magical, but I have been with her on this journey. Ragini bounced back to an even better opportunity. This transition has been like an awakening, bringing her more clarity in each sphere of her life.
• Shifting to the US from Singapore – When you change continents for a better life and opportunity, you need to be prepared to bring in a whole lot of new changes to live in a different socio-economic setup. We have been through with detailed planning for Sanjay & Savitha to calibrate their move from Singapore to the US. Overheads, schooling, the need of car, etc., were major issues. But the opportunity was so big that we could plan and fund each change – the need for one spouse not working also could meet as we tallied numbers. We planned a comfortable life in the US, Daughters’ future and India retirement for Sanjay & Savitha.

Navigating Transitions

Every transition carries both emotional and financial implications, while the emotional aspects often take centre stage, it is the financial dimension that quietly determines how smoothly the transition unfolds.

In many situations, our role has been to bring structure and clarity during uncertain times. Whether it was evaluating a property decision in a foreign country, ensuring financial stability during a career break, or planning a cross-border relocation, we worked closely to align decisions with long-term goals. 

Structuring cash flow, maintaining a liquidity building buffer for uncertainty becomes critical during such phases. Equally important is the confidence that comes from knowing that decisions are aligned with larger life goals. When clarity is present, it creates the space to focus on adapting, evolving and making the most of the transitions itself.

Transition may feel challenging, but it’s necessary.

Letting go of the “planned” life is not failure. It is an adaptation. The question is not whether your path changed, but whether you are willing to evolve with it.

An important part of this evolution is ensuring that your finances move in alignment with your life. If you’d like to reflect deeper on this, you can explore our thoughts here: Are you changing finances as per changes in your life?

Each Such Life transition has a financial tether and requires emotional fortitude to adapt and manage change.

Building financial resilience requires a foundation of basic financial knowledge and a strategy for building financial security. From an emotional standpoint, the need is self-confidence to sail through. This is achieved by identifying fears and behaviours regarding money and working to understand and overcome the underlying issues. We at GG help you navigate life transitions by building a financial strategy and clarifying doubts, fears and questions.

Your life satisfaction will increase as you continually seek to respond to change in healthier and more productive ways.

In the world of music, the “passing note” is a note that is not part of a particular chord, but is placed between two chords to provide a smooth melodic transition from one to the other. Likewise, it is important for you to recognise ways you can act as a “passing note” in your own life to facilitate successful transitions.

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We love Certainty. That is just being human and natural.

One thing about the market is that, as an eternal truth, it is uncertain, but that uncertainty only makes opportunities available. 

But here’s the paradox. Markets reward those who can operate without certainty. Uncertainty is not a flaw of the market. It is a feature of the market. And more importantly, it is the very reason opportunities exist. 

So it becomes mandatory for us to have an inviting attitude towards uncertainty, or at least accept it. Accepting volatility is not easy, but if the following five frames can help to change the thinking hat around the market –

5 Thinking Frameworks: To Propel Extreme Volatility

• Being optimistic (the bedrock of equity investing) about the future is a prerequisite for investing in Equity. A belief that tomorrow is going to be better than today, that belief we have for our families, relationships, economy or social life. Like for all other things, tomorrow will unfold better – today’s confusion will be answered –time gives answers – this positivity is the bedrock when it comes to investing, too. Why abandon this belief when it comes to equity markets?

“Every Financial Decision is a reflection of what you believe about the future”

• Being counter-intuitive – Now, after every fall, there is a rise. We all know that. How many of us understand this? How many of us act upon it? Writing this is easy, but practising is the most difficult thing in investing. The one who sees and finds the silver lining in every fall is the winner. In the 2008 Financial Crisis, the Nifty 50 fail 59% and rebounded in 15 months. Those who invested during the fall created significant wealth. The lesson isn’t new. But it is difficult.

“The opportunity does not pass Unnoticed. It passes unacted”

Regrets of not investing during times of uncertainty are real. Wearing a counterintuitive hat helps. 

• Being in Confusion is good for a short while -At times, no one has an answer, and that confusion creates anxiety as well as opportunity. The world adapts to new ways and means. See yourself in past examples. -COVID created an unprecedented time in our lives. Valuations failed 38% – only to rebound very strongly. 

So the present war situation is one example of confusion, like a natural calamity. Global crises, wars and economic shocks often look chaotic in the moment. Confusion creates two things simultaneously. Anxiety and Opportunity. The world adapts. Businesses evolve. Markets adjust. 

• Defining Goals – Why you are investing. What is the purpose of investing? It could be the biggest pull for staying invested. We call ‘Goal’ the anchor for your money and the most significant hack for staying focused during times of volatility.

“The right portfolio is built around your life and not market cycles”

• Thinking Vs Reacting – We react when we are in a situation. If we step back from the situation and think about the bigger picture, we can be more logical than reactive. Take the professional opinion of your advisor to understand the situation. 

The Equity Market demands more time in the market than timing the market. How we take action or not take action in times of volatility determines the level of wealth we create. 

Extreme volatility is not an exception. It is part of the journey. The difference between investors who built wealth and those who don’t isn’t access to information. It’s how they think during uncertainty. Create Wealth. Plan Well. Live Better.

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Traditionally, this framework was closely tied to age.

So does structuring money decisions around life stages still make sense?

More than ever.

In fact, the Financial Life Cycle is increasingly relevant precisely because life has become unpredictable. Dual-income households are common, career breaks are normal, gig economy income can be unstable, medical inflation continues to rise, and life expectancy is increasing steadily.

The Financial Life Cycle does not mean a rigid age-based formula. It means aligning money strategy with life realities. The structure is timeless. The application is flexible.

The New Perspective: It’s No Longer Just Age-Based

Traditionally, financial planning followed a simple pattern:
Young = High risk
Old = Low risk

But today, that perspective is evolving.

Career Life Cycle Matters More Than Age

Financial advice once assumed that youth automatically meant higher risk capacity and age required caution. But life is more nuanced. A 40-year-old startup founder with growing equity may have greater risk capacity than a 30-year-old government employee with fixed income and family responsibilities. Age alone no longer defines financial strategy. Cash flow stability does.

Human Capital Is Dynamic

Earlier, income was expected to steadily rise with age. Today, that assumption does not always hold. If your skills are highly relevant and in demand, you may have strong earning visibility and the ability to take calculated risks. But if your industry is volatile or income fluctuates, a conservative approach may be wiser, even in your thirties. Human capital now plays a larger role in determining risk than age.

Financial Independence Is Becoming Flexible

Retirement is also being redefined. Some pursue early financial freedom. Some choose semi-retirement. Others begin second careers after 60. Many do not want to retire in the traditional sense at all.

The modern Financial Life Cycle is less about stopping work and more about creating flexibility and choice.

What this means is simple: financial planning today depends less on how old you are and more on income stability, financial dependents, skill relevance, health outlook, and the lifestyle you want to sustain.

Much of financial stress does not come purely from lack of money. It comes from misalignment. Stress builds when you take aggressive risks at a stage that requires protection, when you delay retirement planning because it feels distant, or when your lifestyle expands faster than your wealth. The tension you feel in those moments is not just financial,  it is psychological. But when your strategy matches your life stage, decisions become clearer, risks feel manageable, and trade-offs feel intentional. Retirement begins to feel achievable. Clarity slowly replaces anxiety.

Final Reflection

At its core, the Financial Life Cycle is not a textbook theory. It is a simple but powerful question: what should my money be doing for me right now? At 25, the answer may be growth. At 35, it may be growth with protection. At 50, it becomes disciplined accumulation. At 60, it shifts toward stability and income. Later, it becomes a legacy. Every stage feels permanent when you are living it, but financially, every stage is temporary.

Money should grow when you can afford to take risks. It should protect when others depend on you. It should stabilize when income slows, and it should support you with dignity when you stop working. When your financial strategy evolves alongside your life, planning stops feeling rigid and starts feeling aligned. And that alignment, between your life and your money, is the true meaning of financial planning.

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Early Adulthood: when your biggest asset is you
This is when you begin earning, responsibilities are limited and financial independence feels exciting, spending rises and lifestyle improves.
If you are in your early twenties, you may feel there is plenty of time. And that is exactly your advantage.
If you invest ₹5,000 monthly at 12% from age 24 to 60, you could build more wealth than someone who starts investing ₹20,000 monthly at age 35. Time quietly does the heavy lifting.
At this stage, your biggest asset is not your savings account. It is your ability to earn in the future, your human capital.
You don’t need complicated products right now. You need habits: start disciplined investing, buy health insurance early and avoid unnecessary lifestyle inflation.
The goal is simple: build a strong base. Small disciplined steps taken here create massive long-term impact.

Marriage and Responsibility: When Protection Becomes Non-Negotiable

Life changes the moment someone depends on you.
Marriage. A home loan. A child.
Your financial decisions are no longer just about you.
Imagine being 32, with a home loan and a two-year-old child, but no term insurance. One unexpected event can disrupt everything your family depends on.
At this stage, financial planning shifts from “growth only” to “growth plus protection.”
Life insurance becomes necessary. Health cover needs to be increased. Investment allocation may need balancing instead of aggressive risk-taking.
Your risk appetite may still be high. But your risk capacity is different now. You are no longer building wealth only for ambition. You are building stability for the people who trust you.

Peak Earning Years: Accelerating Wealth Creation

In your forties and early fifties, income often peaks. So do expenses, children’s education, lifestyle upgrades, and parental support. This is the most powerful wealth-building phase of your life, but also the most financially stretched.
If managed well, these years can determine the quality of your retirement. Investment discipline matters more than chasing new ideas. Reducing liabilities and increasing retirement contributions should become central goals. This is where financial independence begins to look achievable, because of consistent planning.

Pre-Retirement: Protect What You Built
Every stage feels permanent when you’re in it. But financially, every stage is temporary.
As retirement approaches, something shifts internally. You start thinking differently. You realize earning years are limited.
The focus now turns to: preserving accumulated wealth, reducing market risk, securing retirement income, and clearing remaining debts. Asset allocation gradually becomes more conservative. The objective is no longer maximum growth, it is financial stability.
This is the transition phase from accumulation to conservation.

Retirement: Making Wealth Last
Retirement is not the end of financial planning, it is a new chapter.
Now your income from employment stops, and investments must generate regular income. Health expenses become more relevant. Estate planning and succession planning gain importance.
The biggest fear during this stage is outliving savings. A well-planned financial life cycle ensures that retirement is not dependent on children or uncertain income sources. It allows dignity, independence, and peace of mind.

Wealth Distribution and Legacy
In later years, your focus naturally shifts toward legacy.
Are your nominations updated? Is your will in place? Will wealth transfer smoothly?
At this stage, financial planning is not about accumulation. It is about clarity and harmony.

Timing Your Life, Not the Market
Many financial mistakes don’t happen because people lack intelligence , they happen because people copy strategies that don’t match their stage of life. A 25-year-old avoiding equity may sacrifice decades of growth, often without even realizing what time could have built for them. A 60-year-old chasing aggressive returns may risk the stability they spent a lifetime working hard to create. The right investment is never universal; it depends on age, responsibilities, income stability, health, and personal goals, and sometimes even on peace of mind.

Financial planning is not about timing the market, it is about timing your life. When your money decisions evolve with your life stages, stress reduces, clarity increases, and confidence grows. Wealth is not meant for accumulation alone; it is meant to support ambition in youth, security when others depend on you, freedom in maturity, and dignity in retirement. That alignment, between life and money, is the true essence of the Financial Life Cycle.

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As 2025 comes to a close, the GG team pauses to reflect on the progress made, the moments that tested us, and the experiences that shaped how we think, work, and live. Reflection helps us understand where we stand and move a little closer each year to what we set out to achieve — something we value deeply, both for our clients and for ourselves.

These reflections bring together personal journeys shaped by growth, resilience, and change. They reflect our shared belief that real progress comes from awareness, discipline, and the courage to evolve.

This article is our way of looking back so we can move forward with grace. Each team member’s journey is unique, and every journey deserves to be celebrated.

Kshitija Shete

2025 began with a Leadership Role as President of my Toastmasters club. While leading this voluntary contributing community, I learned more about myself, as getting things done without a line of authority is new to me. I continuously honed the art of being in ‘Now’ this year, one more corollary quality I added on the go: taking things as they are at face value and matter-of-factly. This saves a lot of peace.

Deep client conversations motivate me – the art of honing the human side of money is a continuous pursuit. I also learned – People Management is the biggest draw in managing business, and in 2026, we are looking to strengthen our team size and skill sets. In 2025, in the last quarter, I hit the gym with a personal trainer and drew parallels to compounding wealth; for me, compounding in health will take precedence in 2026.

Ravi Kumar TV

In 2025, I lived through a year that tested far more than technical skill and experience. Market movement sent confusing signals—short rallies followed by sudden drawdowns—while headlines amplified uncertainty, and client emotions swung between fear and urgency. There were moments of doubt, allocations that looked prudent in hindsight felt slow in real time, opportunities that appeared obvious only after they had passed. Each client conversation carried weight—anxious expectations during volatility, impatience during no portfolio movements and quiet pressure to “do more” when restraint was often the wiser choice. Balancing conviction with humility became almost a daily discipline.

Yet resilience defined the year. I chose clarity over noise, process over prediction, and client trust over short-term validation. Staying invested in principles when it was uncomfortable, absorbing anxiety without passing it on and making decisions anchored in long-term outcomes rather than evaluating every quarter. What 2025 ultimately revealed to me was not what I missed in allocations, but what I protected—capital, confidence, and relationships so that our clients can truly plan well and live better. In navigating uncertainty with calm and intent, I realized that managing true wealth is not about capturing every opportunity, but about guiding people steadily through the ones that test them most.

As the new year approaches, I carry forward renewed conviction and quiet optimism, confident that with patience, discipline, and trust, the coming year will be a better one.

Shwethashree R

In 2025, I met both my most broken and my strongest versions. As if the situation demands change, and that makes you better.

While juggling with my toddler son and work responsibilities, I learned to set boundaries and think more broadly. Coping with health and self-care reminded me of its importance.

With growing work and responsibilities, my efficiency was challenged and questioned. I accepted it as my growth curve, chose to view learning as continuous, and believe that communicating better is a must in all spheres.

My learnings in 2025 are: patience matters, a clear understanding of personal & professional goal-setting, and a feeling of the need for a deeper connection. Time spent with my son is precious. With these newfound understandings, I am looking to improve myself, build confidence, and grow.

Jayashree H

The year 2025 marked an important milestone in my professional journey as I returned to work after a long sabbatical to fulfil my desire to be a mother. I started adapting to demands on my time with discipline and determination. Balancing personal responsibilities alongside work commitments was challenging. During those moments, guidance from Kshitija Ma’am and reassurance from Ravi sir built my confidence.

Transitioning to work taught me the importance of returning at the right time after a delivery break to continue learning and growing professionally. Although I had worked in the same role earlier, coping with the current changes was challenging. This experience reinforced the need to stay engaged and open to continuous improvement.

Looking ahead to 2026, I am optimistic and motivated. I look forward to deepening my skills, learning new aspects of my role, and contributing more meaningfully to strong teamwork and shared success at Gaining Ground. With a clear focus on growth and collaboration, I step into the new year with confidence and enthusiasm for the journey ahead.

Rama Tulasi

2025 has been a year of both highs and lows. It began with a vision board that gave me clarity and direction, and looking back, I’m grateful to have achieved most of what I planned. A few goals are still a work in progress, but the continued effort itself feels meaningful. Making investments for my mom was especially fulfilling and brought me immense satisfaction. Being able to meet small wishes for myself, my kids, and my family added to my happiness.

This year, I made a conscious effort to focus on self-care, with starting yoga becoming an important step in that journey. While I didn’t achieve everything I set out to, the process pushed me to work subconsciously, which felt motivating in its own way.

At work, learning new processes, completing certification, and stepping into different roles when needed were important milestones. There were also challenging moments filled with feedback, self-doubt, confusion, and introspection. During times when my confidence dipped and direction felt unclear, I learned to pause, regather myself, trust my abilities, and move forward calmly. I’ve realized that stepping out of my comfort zone is essential for growth.

Ending the year with a family trip was just what I needed. Spending quality time together, being close to nature, and reflecting helped me re-energize. As I step into 2026, I aim to work towards becoming a better version of myself in all walks of life.

Suhas H

2025 was a year of learning, challenges, and steady personal growth. The first half of the year was spent completing my MBA. It helped me understand my abilities better and prepare for the next phase of life. Along with college, I was searching for a job, and joining Gaining Ground in June became an important milestone. It marked my entry into the professional world and gave me clarity and confidence.

The year also tested me personally due to a family health issue, which taught me patience and balance. Cricket, which has always been close to my heart, did not go as planned either. Despite good performances, we lost several tournaments, not due to a lack of skill, but sheer bad luck, which taught me how to accept outcomes and stay resilient.

Looking back, 2025 wasn’t easy, but it shaped me. It taught me to stay motivated, accept reality, and come back stronger. As I step into 2026, my focus is on improving my skills, learning continuously, supporting my family better, and growing as a person. I hope the coming year brings progress, strength, and a better cricket journey.

Varsha Rao

Some years quietly pass, while others stay with you and shape you in unexpected ways. 2025 was that year for me, a year of lessons wrapped in confusion.

It began with serious health challenges, followed by recovery and unexpected learning at work beyond my usual scope. Two outstation conferences broadened my perspective, while the last few months brought deeper emotional questions around life, marriage, and companionship – work in progress, now carried forward to 2026.

The year tested me physically, mentally, and emotionally. At times, the only therapy that truly helped was reading the Bhagavad Gita. While I plan personal finances for others, this year taught me to apply the same discipline to my own life. Medical emergencies reinforced the importance of having a contingency fund. My health insurance also proved its value, but more than anything I learned that priorities must always remain priorities.

Upgrading my travel to flights due to health reasons, something I earlier avoided because of cost, made me realize I could manage my finances better than I had assumed. Life finds its own way to support us when we choose to live better for ourselves. Travel became a major highlight this year, office trips, conferences, and most importantly, my first family trip to Udaipur. Being able to take my family along was a deeply meaningful milestone.

When I sat down to assess my triumphs of this year, I ticked off 9 out of 13 goals. Unless you reflect, you don’t know how far you have travelled. My 2026 Goal card is staring at me, I do not expect anything, as I am leaving it for manifestation to work. And hopefully, next year, I’ll enjoy an ice cream without worrying about falling sick again. Fingers crossed.

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Have you experienced this kind of language in your circles? 

How do we decide, think about money, or, for that matter, anything? It all depends upon our experiences, past incidents, and our reference points. We are a continuum of our environment. Let me provide real examples to illustrate the point. 

I met 22-year-old millennials for investment planning. He dabbled in stocks much earlier during college days. I asked him, “How did you learn?” The poised answer was I have seen my father investing. Viola! It’s not magic but a well-informed/imbibed approach to investing.

We also have a couple in their mid-40s who have been with us for the last 10 years. We often see them scrambling for funds; monthly investments are irregular, expenses exceed income, and no system seems to work. Surprisingly, their parents are in the same state. As they grew up, they took it as normal behaviour. These attitudes are difficult to change.

On this backdrop, how and what to talk to children about money? How can you create good reference points for them to grow up with? Like learning any good skill, such as swimming or playing a musical instrument, you cannot learn money skills overnight. The series of situations and experiences creates money memories, reference points, you can say. That guides our children throughout decision-making when they become adults. The following are a few key points to establish good financial reference points for your kids.

1. Money impacts all aspects of our lives. Yet money remains the least discussed topic in families. It’s time to change that. Bring it mainstream. Discuss money in the drawing room and dining table. Let them know what it takes to earn, accumulate, and invest. (Parents’ clarity of basic personal finance is required?) Teach them where money comes from (not from an ATM), and they will know how to get it for themselves. Talk about your profession, services, industry, etc., and discuss office/work stories. If they know how one earns, they personify themselves as adults who earn for themselves.
2. You can afford to buy, but that doesn’t mean you should buy anything: value-based spending is learned from small examples; discussing need and wants trade-offs helps your kid to spend wisely. When kids portray wants as needs, they justify their behaviour. Constant parental judgment is required to make one understand that wants are not needs.
3. Tell the truth about your wealth. Let kids know whether you have sufficient money or a hand-to-mouth situation, or if you are in debt. Let your kids know it rather than receiving shocks and behaviour modification. If you don’t have funds and pretend they’re there, you are fostering financial denial. If you have good assets and you still don’t spend enough for a better living, you are creating frugal attitudes.
4. It’s not your job to protect them from challenges: often, we see families talking or swearing by stuff like, ‘I don’t want kids to go through the pain I went through.’ Parents are so determined to provide a good life, in the process, we are creating entitled adults. Don’t protect; allow them to grow from their experiences. If they can’t cope, they won’t learn to cope.
5. You can say ‘No’ or ‘Not Now’ for things that you don’t like. They learn the life skill of delayed gratification and avoid impulse buying. Ready for the storm when you say no, but by holding on, you are creating space for tolerating discomfort and building emotional resilience.
6. When parents grow in scarcity and children are born in their abundant time, the question for parents is how to create values for kids so they respect and mold them in this requires constant sharing of money values, questioning decisions or their benchmark for few things (brand shopping is one example), and clarifying your few decisions to them so they develop specific reference points. Personally, I can vouch for my children—value for money can be taught.

We want to teach our kids basic financial fundamental principles and virtues to position them for success. We want to raise our kids to be mindful, hardworking, and grateful adults. Pass on the Financial Heritage, Model financial behaviour, and kids learn from it to become well-rounded adults who spend and save mindfully. Money is an attitudinal subject, and you are the key to developing those attitudes. 

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